Two loves at the same time.

"Have any of you ever been in love with or loved two men at the same time? Could it be possible?" It has happened to me... One is my husband, and the other is my ex-boss that I haven't seen since I quit my job. The worst part is that we never had something, but we both know that we like each other. He is married too. But when we met by the first time, it was like we were shocked and frozen... that was weird.

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I think you can have love for 2 people at the same time. But not be in love that's totally different

@Jessie What is the difference? In love is a chemical reaction in our brain that we can not control, right? And love is a decision? So,did I decide to love them both?

yes that’s the basis of polyamory but it’s also possible you idealized your boss since you never had a real romantic relationship.

Yes I’ve been IN LOVE with two men. It tore my heart to choose. I don’t regret my decision but it happens. I don’t think this topic is discussed a lot.

@paula makes sense. Probably I'm still idealized him. But, thanks to God, I chose the right one. But it was a very hard time for me.

@Jennifer The people don't talk about this because they are judgy, and they don't believe this is for real.

Polyamory and ethical non monogamy is valid. You absolutely can be in love with multiple people at the same time. Love isn't finite.

I do believe that you can be in love with multiple people at once. However, lust is a tricky thing and it's easy to confuse the two in the moment

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