Just a rant, don’t mind me!

My god this man makes me want to pull all my hair out, where do i even begin my goodness!!! he’ll come home and act all weird and cause arguments but the moment i react or slightly raise my voice i become the problem. I try to hug him cuddle him he doesn’t respond and instead says he has something urgent to do which he weren’t in no rush then he went out and came home shortly after and saying why have i not approached and gone to him, even though i did try i said let’s watch a movie as we planned yesterday to do tonight and a few other things but this man just can’t help but be sarcastic. then im trying to ask questions about why can’t he take accountability that he’s the reason we are disagreeing right now but when i say that he gets all sarcastic and says ‘yes all my fault’ bla bla but doesn’t actually see the issue that he has caused to make me react and say certain stuff that he knows will annoy me and when i react he says why am i getting angry and i can’t get a word in edgewise the manipulative ugly cow.