I feel this wholeheartedly right now…please message me if you would like to talk🥺
As a daughter who mother felt like this I assure you that we will be eternally grateful and in debt for your support and love. I wish you well 🎈🧸🪄.
You need him from him, or anyone else around you. I have no problems asking for help even when I don’t need, sometimes because I’m tired or can’t be bothered or because he can. I ask everyone alot, for the most mundane things sometimes, and because their love language is acts of service they have some satisfaction in being able to help. Reach out, ask for help, delegate. We’re not superwomen. If you have guilt in asking for help then the first step is to get past that.
I completely understand this feeling and I only have one kid. Since this feeling started I went back to therapy, it's not the best but it helps to have someone to vent to...I also got back on medication.. which helps with the wanting to sleep all day and do nothing so I'm getting back into art. My therapist also told me I need to communicate with my significant other, tell them what I need and how I need it. And so far it's helping... here is an example. I hate waking up to the baby at 6:00am when he's getting ready for work, I asked him if when she wakes up can he watch her till he leaves and wake me up then, which helps alot due to her whining and singing triggers me for some reason, she gets to now play with him in the morning while he waits for his time to go to work. Or ill text him before he comes home to see how he is feeling or how I'm feeling and see who has more strength to watch her when the other gets home, which helps me take a shower and relax from the stress.
I feel u i feel like im doing a job for 3 people lol