Friendship changes

Hi everyone, just feel like I need a bit of a vent as this is playing on my mind and keeping me awake… even though baby is fast asleep 😅 I went out to a baby group with my friend today with our babies. During the coffee and shopping afterwards, I felt interrogated about my baby, going back to work, our house and other areas of my life. She would ask me questions and then during my answers (not sure why I felt like I had to answer as some were quite personal) she would constantly interrupt me with her opinion or criticism of my choices or my thoughts and opinions on things. A real stab in my heart was when she scoffed at what I said about going back to work (sensitive topic to me anyways) and said “do you really think that…” I felt like I could barely get a word in edgeways and felt so flustered afterwards. This isn’t the first time this has happened but I sometimes can’t believe how she speaks to me. It’s almost like she thinks she’s superior and can offer opinions on my life without a second thought of my feelings. I’ve witnessed her speak to other people like it in the past and funnily enough they have now distanced themselves from her… It’s not all the time which makes things difficult. It’s a friendship that began almost ten years ago and we have some great memories together and we live really close. My husband seems keen for me to hold onto the friendship as they live close and he gets on with her husband. However, the way she makes me feel I really worth it? Like I’m crying as I write this as I almost felt bullied by her today. It’s taken me back to feeling like I’m at school again and I’m almost 30! Also not sure if I’m just being over sensitive but it’s just really upset me today. The friendship obviously means something to me and along with maternity leave loneliness I just don’t know what to do 😢😢😢 Sorry for a long rant 🙈 This probably doesn’t make much sense but needed to get it off my chest somewhere and everyone else is asleep!