Mysterious Clothes?

My partner and I had a past of lying to each other once on each end, we agreed to move forward, it would be best to share our locations(his idea). We moved in together and have a camera set up in the living room that faces the door to our apartment for our puppy. There’s been a few instances our dryer went out and we would go to his parents to wash our clothes. His sister who he never talks to also gave me all of her old clothes awhile ago before getting pregnant. I only took a couple but donated the rest and I thought I threw everything else out. Well I was doing laundry and a few times I’ve done it, I’ve found mystery clothes. Sweatshirt, sweat pants, and underwear. He claims it’s all his sisters. I remember the sweatshirt but that’s it, the underwear and sweatpants threw me off. He’s claimed he’s found men’s socks and sweatshirts that weren’t his. I said they had to be his dads. I know I’ve never had a man here. (The sweatshirt ended up being his other sisters). And I realize we’re together almost all the time minus when he goes to the gym. He goes for an hour a day. Sometimes I’ll go with. So for him to cheat, it would be quite impossible. The only thing that really bothers me is that the underwear and sweats were size smalls and his sisters don’t really wear smalls. Idk if I’m being naive right now or if I truly have nothing to worry about. Idk if it’s the hormones making me doubt him or what. When I found the underwear I did ask to go through his phone and I found absolutely nothing. We have access to each others phones whenever I just don’t like going through it. My friends and family don’t think he’d cheat but idk. What are your thoughts?

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I'm not sure. Maybe ask the sisters if those are their clothes? Play it off like oh these must have been mixed up with our stuff

Anyone will cheat if they want to. They’ll make the time My friend was a SAHM and her husband worked. He left every day at the same time and came home every day at the same time. He still cheated on her while at work. That’s just weird that random clothes showed up in your laundry.

Do you have the sisters numbers? I would have a snap and send it to them and flippantly say “I’ll return these to you next time I see you, looks like it’s one of yours” and if it’s not theirs they’ll deny it. Then you can go from there, at least you have their confirmation whether it’s theirs or not, and know how to approach with your partner, because then you can say, no they’re not your sisters’ undies I already asked them. Have proof, put him on the spot, see where his defence mechanism goes. With undies we can’t really assume a woman doesn’t wear smalls unless she says otherwise. My friend likes her undies quite tight (coz they’re really stretchy her ones) and wears a size smaller than she actually is. Her clothes are M but her undies are S (in my case)

@Kellie The sister said the shirt was hers and the sweats, she seemed super creeped out that her underwear was here, said” yea the underwear looks familiar” but never said if it was truly hers or not.

It looks familiar. To me that means yes. Because if I’ve never seen it before and it’s not mine it wouldn’t be “familiar” I would know 100% if it was mine or not, if it looked “familiar” I’m assuming I haven’t seen it for while

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