I would be careful about that because are you going to think about the new guy when you are with your husband…lust is very dangerous…maybe try and find things to rekindle your passion and fire 🔥 for your husband?
Lmfaoooo REPENT !!! I’ve been there twice before. You better love and desire your husband and only your husband.
I wanna see the results but don’t wanna choose any of these lol
not really sure that's how it works lol i definitely wouldn't call it normal to get a crush on someone else while married... this post is disturbing
Sounds more like this colleague is making you horny and your using your husband to fulfill your desires :/ yikes. Wouldn’t say it’s cheating but I know it’d feel like a betrayal of trust to me if I found out this was going on for my husband.
How would you feel if your husband said it was his crush at work getting him horny and that's why he was having sex with you? This is incredibly disturbing, and I feel for your husband. I'd be devastated if this happened to me, and my relationship would be over.
I feel like possibly the excitement from this other guy is making you remember how it was for your husband. Focus on your husband, if you’re losing that spark then gain it back again. But another man shouldn’t make you realize that.
If I knew my boyfriend was feeling this way crushing and lusting over someone at work then coming home and using me as a sex doll not really being into me I’d be disgusted.
@Ashley I would say it is cheating in your heart because you are allowing yourself to fantasize about someone else…the good thing about it is that you can choose to stop instead of it festering into something worse…but yea it starts in the mind/heart
@Yasmina hmm maybe better for me to clarify my thoughts. I think what is considered cheating is subjective to the couple-like if both parties discuss and consent/agree. For example an open relationship wouldn’t be cheating because it’s agreed upon.
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It's completely normal to experience an increased desire for intimacy with your partner when you have a crush on someone else at work; this is often because the new attraction can rekindle feelings of excitement and desire within your existing relationship, prompting you to seek more closeness with your significant other.