Sex/Anger

Anyone else's husband/SO get upset or angry when they don't get sex after 3 days? It's been 3 days since my husband and I had sex and he's acting like we haven't had sex in a month. I just really don't understand it, and it makes me feel like I'm the bad guy. Has anyone else experienced this, and if so, how did you fix it.
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My bf gets mad if he doesn’t get it every single morning…

@Karissa every morning? Girl, how do you keep up?

This isn’t normal lmao.

@Karissa i could not handle every morning

Sexual frustration, if hormones aren't released and all that, can make them moody, like our periods, just get to it, life's short 🤣

@Steamtrane Family we have a great sex life and all but I've been on a steroid pack for a day or so and I couldn't sleep last night due to that. Any other time he asks for sex I give it to him. I'm just exhausted and feel like I'm the bad guy for saying no

If you don’t want to have sex, don’t have sex. It’s okay for him to be disappointed, it is absolutely not okay for him to get angry at you. He knows you’re taking medicine rn, he’s just being pathetic. You haven’t done anything wrong and there is nothing that you need to fix. He needs to fix his shitty attitude and disrespectful expectations.

@Victoria~ agree

No you're not the bad guy, he should understand

I never have sex and my husband has his tantrums at times. Oh well. I’m not interested and not interested in faking it anymore 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

@Elisa honestly. Haven’t had sex with my husband for weeks because my sex drive just ain’t there and my baby is so clingy . He’s so understanding we’ve just planned to spend time together today and take my son to grandma . I don’t know how women live with men like this it’s so disturbing

Girlllll tell that man to get a box of tissues and calm tf down😂my hubby was CHILLIN for like 6 or so months cause I was sick for most of the middle and end of my pregnancy and then bb took all our energy the first few months. We’ve only recently started sneaking in us time and we always are waiting til baby is out for the night like we’re teenagers again😂honestly it makes it more fun and meaningful when we do have that time. Hubby gets I’m in baby mode 24/7 while he’s trying to balance two jobs and school and us, he’s just happy to be there😅

@Justina literally if I tell my fiancé no he literally still loves & cares for me & doesnt throw a tantrum simply sex shouldn’t be expected yea it’s part of a relationship but it doesn’t have to hapoen. So happy for you and your partner 💕

@Elisa honestly sex is good but relationship isn’t all about sex . Yesterday hubby was making a joke that we haven’t had sex in a while and he’s forgot how to have sex . After all I’m caring for our child and he comes first

He is probably insecure and when he feels rejected doesn’t know how to handle it. He needs to work on himself

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