My SO compared my sex drive to my mom 🤢

Forgive the clickbait- it’s not what it sounds like. My sister mentioned to me and my SO a while ago that she found banana flavored lube in the room while she was staying at my mom’s. I naturally erased this from my mind, but apparently he did not. Today I was casually talking about how different my mom and I are and he mentioned the lube and how I’m not very wild. I quickly was able to make him see why this was not a great thing to say to me and he apologized. But then I had the realization that I’m never going to be enough for him sexually. It’s just really heartbreaking to know that. It’s not the first time he’s said something about me not experimenting enough or not having enough sex. And I have introduced more interesting things in the bedroom than he ever has (literally zero.) It just really hurts is all. But being adding my mom into it is fucking crushing.