Should I feel guilty??!

My son is ten weeks only and my husband and I have booked a hotel room for valentines. We plan on leaving baby with grandma for the night and there is no worry there, we trust her. My worry is that my son is too young to be away from us overnight, what if he has separation anxiety. Maybe I’m worrying because it’s the night before Valentine’s Day but idk…
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No love you shouldn't feel guilty, at the end of the day you're still a wife and a woman, outside of being a mom, if you know your child will be safe and it's only for one night it's ok. Babies and toddlers have no sense of object permanence so when you aren't there they won't even realize you've been gone till you come back. It's fine and you got this mama!

Girllll you deserve a break away and that’s okay, don’t feel guilty. Your son is with someone who loves him as well and that should be some assurance for you too! Get away and enjoy yourself for the night hehe ☺️

my son had his first sleep over at 2 weeks when I was rushed back to the hospital

Don't feel guilty at all. My girl is having her first sleepover with grandparents tonight too and she's 9m more aware so I'm weary about separation anxiety but at that age they're so resilient. You enjoy your day mama ❤️

At 10 weeks he doesn’t know who is who, he just wants to be held and fed. Honestly go!

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