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Girl I would tell him to kiss your butt. It’s not about him and how he feels at that moment. It’s about YOU and settling the new addition to your family. He should respect that.
@Terra I don’t trust him to have her for the day..
@Milan I feel like it some days for sure lol and if he doesn’t to bad for him I guess
I just told mine to kiss my ass last night because he wanted to “apologize”😂😂 because I know there isn’t gonna be any change
@Milan omg I love it 😂😂
Why don't you trust him?
@Terra a few reasons… but he never spends more then an hr when he visits. He doesn’t know what she eats how to comfort her how to properly change her nappy And how could you trust someone that’s meant to be a father and puts a plastic bag over there head in front of a 1yr old thinking it’s funny
He's not gonna be able to get better with her until he spends more time with her and conversations about what's appropriate and what's not can be had and you can make list to help him navigate his parenting. Most men don't know how to be fathers/parents without practice or help.
@Terra your right. But I’m not going to stress myself out more sending her knowing he can’t do it
I only have one babydaddy and I'm with him but I feel like having a second child shouldn't affect him being able to spend time with his daughter.. He could always take her for the day. After having my son, my daughter (1st born) loved the one on one time with me and her father.