Sigh

@Kirsty they have kids and I just couldn’t be responsible for brining that hurt to him and possibly breaking up their family. Even though her actions are doing that… I just couldn’t! My loyalty is still to her I just pray she comes clean herself. I hate cheaters male or female

I dont know that I could stay friends with someone like that. Cheating is of course bad but I could see past a one-time mistake. Repeatedly doing it and doing nothing to change or fix it is awful plus the added detail that she's roped you into her secret

I think she married the wrong guy but if she is a decent person she should come clean and either end the affair or break up with the husband. Either way I wouldn't tell him, it's between them really

@Elisabeta FurtunaI agree it’s between them I’d never go and tell him or anyone else we know for that matter. Hence why I’m telling it out here incognito. @SarahI can’t lie I find it hard to see her in the same way! I find her very self centred now and I’ve never thought of her like that! Poor guy! He adores her and probably wouldn’t even leave her if he knew.

Has she explained why she is cheating? (Not justifying) but if he’s a decent man, why is she doing it?

I would cut her off so fast

@Christina🤱🏼🍂☕️♈️ this is what I don’t understand. I think she’s just bored she can’t even explain why she’s doing it?

Plausible. Not that we can understand but I guess her mind it makes sense. Adding spice to her life 🤷🏼‍♀️

Don't be two faced. (Not calling you two faced) But tell her! You don't agree or stand for that shit and she is not a friend you want to have around if she can do that to good people. I would tell her man also. I wouldn't give a fuck about that shit.

@Laura yea you are right!!! I’ve told her what she’s doing is wrong and I don’t condone it and I’ve said she needs to tell her husband. She said she never will because she knows it would hurt him!

Personally, I’d end that friendship. I would also most definitely tell the husband if it were me. Cheating is selfish, and it also destroys the person who’s being cheated on. If you’re not going to tell the husband I do understand but I wouldn’t be able to continue to play happy families around him knowing what she’s doing, which is why I’d end the friendship.