So much for happy valentines am I the a**hole?

Need to rant! Had a message on my lunch that my partner left work at 10am as he has a sore throat so he’s been home all day. I asked him to pick our son up from my mums early so I didn’t have to pick him up after 6pm and he agreed. I got home at 630pm to him and baby asleep on the sofa. I asked how’s our son been since he picked him up and he replied saying they’ve been in bed for 3 hours. I then had to start dinner but saw the dishwasher wasn’t put on and all the pans I needed hadn’t been washed. So I said I’m not cooking as I’d have to do all the washing up first. He’s now decided to cook his own dinner not offer me any and had a go me because I was short with him. I was up every hour last night as our son is ill and is coughing all night long. Then I’ve worked a 10 hour day come home to a shithole of a house and expected to clean up and cook dinner. He’s been home with a sore throat and not offered to help me at all. He’s said he’s still going out and playing golf tomorrow for 5 hours or more so he’s not that ill! I’ve now locked myself in the bathroom and all I can hear is our son keeps crying for me. Our son probably won’t go to bed at usual time now as he’s had two naps at my mums and then three hours more than normal! And I already know I’m going to be the one up with him again. I’m fuming.😡 also he moaned that I didn’t pick up a bottle of wine on my way home!

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I'm sorry hun but your husband sounds like a child 😡 Shouldn't treat you like that and should be working with you as a team to help with the house and your child. Sending love xx

Throw his golf clubs in the bin and hide any pain relief. Put on a smile on your face and tell him he’s a massive prick and needs to sleep on the sofa tonight because you clearly can’t get the bug he’s because then you’ll only be able to cook yourself food 💕

He sounds like a worthless dick.

I don’t understand men who act like this.

Your partners a major a**hole!!!

Whoever said you’re in the wrong can kick rocks

Divorce, consider it. He’s showing you how little he values and appreciates your labor inside and outside the home. Seems he’s defaulted you as the primary parent.

@Selena nothing to understand when they lack critical thinking and empathy. Most men are like this, regardless if they have kids or not.

There are men out there who will make your Valentine’s Day and every day feel like heaven. Find those men. Yours can go here —> 🗑️

who the fuck is voting she’s in the wrong?? girl i’m fuming for you.

Sounds like neither of you are feeling it today, and both need to extend one another some grace.

That really sucks, I’m sorry you had such a rubbish day. It’s definitely not fair on you that he’s been like that. I get the frustration as I’m the one expected to do everything whilst 32 weeks pregnant (despite having a migraine yesterday and struggling with my hips and back). If you want a chat drop me a message as I do understand what it can be like x

Men are useless around the house at the best of times, but when they're "ill" they're just a whole new level! I wouldn't give him TOO much grief over the going to bed for a few hours with your son though, as poorly kids are the worst. My baby has been under the weather recently and it's been SO draining 😩

Golf wouldn’t be happening 😂 he’d be at home with our baby all day while I check myself into a spa day lol

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