Partner

Hey mummies, have you ever felt like you hate and love your partner? Since I’ve got pregnant everything my partner does pisses me off, even the little things that used to be normal. I have kicked him out many times and after two days it’s like the anger goes away. I’m trying to be mature but sometimes I’m already speaking without thinking twice. Does anyone else feel like this???
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Most likely your hormones.. and it didn’t disappear straight away after having baby either in fact she’s 18 months now and things he does still bothers me more than before I was pregnant 😂. I suppose I’m not making this sound any better but I totally understand ♥️

Omg I am literally going through this right now! It is really bad to the point I don’t know what to do with him no more, and get angry as littlest things trigger it

I agree with Aimee, your body and your mind are going through so much right now! Sometimes it can be hard to control those outbursts when our partners do something that upsets us. My husband punished our dog the other night and it made me cry my eyes out because I could see how sad our pup was. Hopefully as you get further into your pregnancy things mellow out a bit, but you’re not alone! Just remember to communicate your thoughts and feelings to your partner always.

Hey there momma, I feel you and I was wondering if others felt the same. Somehow I have been knit picking at the little things that used to be normal or as I call his “habits” but they bother me like crazy. I’m trying to hold my composure but sometimes like you said exploding without thinking twice.

Yes me as well

Yeah, although for me it is a combination of irrational things and genuine issues that I am right to be annoyed about (but I can’t control my reactions in the same way I could pre pregnancy!). try and prioritise self care to stay calm like doing a meditation and going for a relaxing bath or walk when you notice you’re getting annoyed over the little things. And remind yourself he’s not your enemy 😂 but genuine issues you gotta talk about don’t let it build up! I’m struggling a lot too though so you’re not alone Xx

Yep.. still the case 10 months pp.

My daughter is 11 months old and sometimes I feel like I hate him but other times I feel like I love him so much. Before I got pregnant/ during my pregnancy he was my best friend and we were so close.

My hubby forgets things I ask him to do quite literally immediately after the words leave my mouth. I’ve just resorted to standing in front of whatever I’ve asked him to help me with and then I look at my baby and go “well Daddy can’t be bothered so we are gonna do it” and his ass is running across the apartment apologizing and trying to do the task right then🫣I’m like babe cmon it’s so simple😂

I went through this and I ended up breaking up with my ex.. I wonder now if these hormones was part of the reason I felt so strongly at the time however it wasn’t ended just because of my feelings, my feeling however was my driving force!

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