My mom forgot I asked her to watch my daughter so I can go on a date tonight and so now I’m home, cancelled on the guy, and feeling super down. Haven’t been out in so long or had a break and was really looking forward to this.

I even bought a new outfit, did my hair, nails. I know she has a life but how can you forget 😕 and last week I told her I really needed a break and she told me she would help me.
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When it comes to plans (from the person that forgets Iv agreed to things unfortunately) I always say remind them consistently! Like a week before, start of weekday/weekend (depending on which one they’re babysitting/helping out), the night before, and the day of. It’s a lot of work but it just means both parties are continuously aware and reminded of expectations! X

But it defo more than just sucks, especially with all the work you put into this night out xx

I’ve learned that I have to keep reminding ppl about their commitments! Like over and over

@Victoria~ 😂😂😂

When we have my aunt babysitting, I have to text her or give her a quick call daily to remind her…on the day of I have to do it 2-3 times…I don’t get time with hubby, so when we finally do, everything must be carefully planned 😂

@Victoria~ that did make me feel a little better aha. thank you

Kind of bummed this guy may not ever ask me out again

Ask him out, make it known you didn't flake! Can your mom watch her tomorrow? The next day? It might not have been how you planned it but there may still be an opportunity

With my parents. I will write on their calendar. Message or phone the day before or on the day. Just in case they forget.

@Melanie he didn’t respond to me last night so I thought I ruined it. But he texted me today saying he still wants to get together when I have a sitter. He took off of work and everything because we planned it 2 weeks ago! Maybe we can try again for tonight! Thanks

Aw man yeah that sucks 😣 well that's great he was still willing to go out! Sounds like a possible keeper! Hopefully you all get the chance soon if you didn't already!

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