Thank you! It's definitely hard but we definitely need to heal
I broke up with my son’s dad over a year ago, and I got in my feels for months afterwards, but he began to show his true colours not long after. I’ve not long finished healing from him
We’ve been split for 2yrs now I still get n my feelings bc I didn’t wanna to end it either but he refused to stop living life like he was a 21yo frat boy & then I found out afterwards he’d been running round behind my back for awhile anyways. We have a good relationship now for our son but I have to remind myself y I ended it (and that he still hasn’t changed) quite a few times & sometimes he reminds me on his own.
I also broke up w my son’s father around 4 months ago on Halloween. Christmas was heavy for me. I’m feeling it a little today but not as much, I’ve been working through some stuff in therapy. Feel free to msg me in you need to vent.