Petty for cutting off friend?

I just turned 29 on Feb. 13th. My bestfriend. Childhood friend. Friends since before we could walk or talk did not tell me happy birthday on my birthday she actually didn’t text or call at all on my birthday. She writes me today but it’s a random TikTok video. Am I being petty if I cut her off because of this?
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I’m a little confused, are you thinking of cutting her off just for the pure reason that she didn’t say happy birthday? If that is the only reason and she is actually a good friend then I have to say yes, it’s a little petty we all know life can get away from us sometimes

Does she have ADHD? I do and I need to set reminders/alarms for my friends’ birthdays because I don’t usually know what day it is so I’ll forget. Also need to set reminders to call them because if I’m doing something else when my other reminder goes off, I might forget.

I’m sure it wasn’t intentional. Speak to her.

I would cut her off. I'm petty and that's messed up. Especially since yall been friends for so long.

Maybe she has more going on in her life than you realise. Perhaps you don’t understand the full situation. The only way you will know is to talk.

Yes because friends are hard to find. She could’ve had something going on. If you’ve been friends that long tell her.

She may have things going on in her life that have caused her to forget, if it is just this one thing I wouldn't cut her off, and think it says more about you than her if you are willing to

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