Valentine’s Day ruined…

I think I need to break up with my bf.. so we are long distance rn.. but he got on a plane and came to my state.. he’s been here since Thursday.. and I have yet to see him! But yet he stated he came out here to spend vday with me 💀.. but claimed he’s been so busy.. we were suppose to be having a date night tonight and that didn’t happen .. bc he’s running errands it’s now 11pm and I haven’t heard from him since 8.. I’m just so drained 😭 and I’m tired of crying..
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I can’t say what exactly he was doing but he definitely didn’t make you a priority. You have to decide if you’re okay with this treatment and move from there.

@Naijah 💯 I’m not a priority I expressed that to him.. he got mad that I’m upset that I got stood up on vday and he basically broke up with me? 😂 like if this isn’t the most narcissistic shit ever idk what is

Then accept the break up and move on from him. That’s highly disrespectful and not normal at all. Like there isn’t enough errands in the world to stop a man who cares and loves him woman from seeing her… do what’s right and don’t allow him to treat you like a doormat

Yes, it definitely is gaslighting . It sucks . I’m sorry ! On Valentine’s Day he probably was not running errands , and you really deserve better. Take care of yourself momma !

Break it off completely and then block him

@Sydney I have to! He showed his absolute true colors tonight a side I’ve never seen before and for him to get so mad when he’s the one who stood me up is giving he’s cheating anyways so I’m done

@Naijah thank you! I’m honestly okay with this.. last night I asked god to give me a sign if this was the man for me or not and he did just that!

Like what errands is he running late at night to miss date night? Suspicious. Break it off.

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