Advice

File a report so that you legally cannot talk to him.

Keep yourself occupied… are you still working? Do you have any family or friends that you can vent to or lean on during this time? And just think about your child. You wouldn’t want your child to grow up in such dysfunction seeing their father be mentally and physically abusive to their mother. And if he wants to see his child when they’re here then I would personally do supervised visits. That’s what my friend did because her bd physically abused her while she was pregnant and she now has a molestation order against him. But he’s still trying to make her life hell. Personally I would cut all contact and raise my child alone.

@Gifty tbh im currently looking for work, I don’t have any friends i can truly lean on which is why it’s been so hard for me during this process.

@Storm are there any programs in your city to help women who are victims of DV?

You can message me girl! If you are wanting someone to lean on to keep reminding yourself to not go back im here! 😁