Am I just being overly hormonal

Your feelings are always valid and same for his. But I don’t think there’s a level of respect there for each other. Any respectful person male or female wouldn’t talk to someone who wasn’t in a position of trust about there relationship so for him to air it on a computer game is out of order. A broken home isn’t always necessary a terrible thing, obviously everyone’s circumstances are different but a good chunk of the time the children are loved more. If you stay together and are unhappy with each other then that does reflect on the child and they feel that unhappiness too. If you are ever in doubt that another female has your partners attention then that other female should have your partner cause it doesn’t stop there. Sorry it wasn’t the support you where hoping to have but I hope it works out for you in time xx

Your feelings are valid.! You shouldn’t have to stress about things like that. Especially while you’re pregnant. I hope you have or find support outside of him because you CAN do it.! It won’t be easy but you absolutely can. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Sending you hugs xo

You aren’t being hormonal you are valid. But here is the thing… he isn’t going to leave you cuz of “sluts”. He is gonna leave you cuz he is an asshole who doesn’t want you to have boundaries and wants to be able to continue to gaslight you. And when you keep sticking up for yourself he is gonna go for someone who will allow him to keep emotionally abusing them. I mean if you wanna stay and deal with all that you can… but it’s not the woman’s fault. He is just a shitty partner who doesn’t respect you and will continue to keep crossing your boundaries and disrespecting you in front of his friends.

The only thing I will say is don’t ever think you can’t do it alone because yes you can! I did it alone with my son and tbh I found it SO much easier after I got rid of his dad

I second what @Courtney says!!! It got so much easier and better when I became a single mom… like I’ve been single from their dad for 7 years and it’s been way better then the 8 years we were married

Don't do it... just don't. Everyone here is gasssing you up gaslighting you to the moon. The gamer guy is safe choice only cause u got pregnant and he not dad of any one dreams and he won't be great dad. He's a gamer ! He said take a break... that how clueless he is. Its not going change. Having baby is going to be hard. Really really hArd. The hormones are upside down within 2 weeks and if ur home was broken.. having a baby right now to love isn't going to help. I've been there. Ppl say, do it, u can do it alone. No you can't. U still have time. Babies need peace and so dies mother. It needs 2 parents, a home and g food and roof and clothes and love. Not fighting, not a separation not another broken home. You're very young, it's your advantage. U can still make another baby with another man. But if you want this life for your kid. It's going to be girls already in his life and u will get bigger and unavailable and men like him want another girls attention. He's not a manyet, a boy even at 20 or 30

Sorry Ali I don’t agree. I’d much rather bust my pack day in day out and know I’m doing it for a person that I brought into the world rather than because a gamer cba getting off his game. I’d much rather raise my child alone than raise two children. Safe option is not safe it’s lazy and disrespectful to the mother of his child! To the poster, don’t ever accept anything less what you want from a man. You will always overcome any and every obstacle that comes your way. Whether that’s a man or a life problem.

@Rachel not everyone is made of steel and nails. There are women that are softer or damaged or fragile. U can't make it up. There at stronger women, testosterone or personality etc they are built differently. Also.. no one knows what pregnancy they will get, they also don't know the struggle they will get and they also don't know the complications after birth or the most difficult baby or easy or get help. Telling ppl a tale of lies and having a baby daddy isn't atrophy for any kid. Nor is step parent or blended family. I've done it all and not a woman's world. Bills need to be paid and some ppl are actually looking for love and family. If you grew up without one, only that person knows what missing. Grow up in poverty, with abusive alcoholic parents, drug dealers, neglectful parents, ones that ignore or starve u or beat u or have gfs and bfs in and out home. American news is full of it. Just a mess. Having a baby because one is lonely or looking for love ... it's a mess

@Rachel in order to over come obstacles.. you have to have tenacity. Saying it will be ok, with no solution. Isn't going to make it OK. Ppl know it's not OK and they sit in trauma until decade flies by or their almost 6ft under and near death. This group is telling her jump off cliff. Other group telling her to leave. So bizarre. If are had akid , difficult, but under 3 months isn't. Don't go bringing babies into the world. It's selfish but ppl keep bringing them. Cause they want a baby even if dad never wanted one. And having an oops baby on purpose..resentment in the making for neglectful parents in future

@Ali I’m sorry if you were raised in any type of way that you have outlined in your previous comments. But again I still don’t agree to say that this girl should stick with a person that is disrespecting her, downgrading her to friends online, and abusing any trust that they have. To go on and say she shouldn’t have her baby is quite out of order tbh, you obviously have a lot of emotion in your responses and we won’t see eye to eye on this matter. But I stand with, don’t tolerate ANYTHING you wouldn’t want your child to tolerate. No matter what you go through no matter how strong you are. You ALWAYS find a way to pick up your big girl pants and give your child everything they need.

@Ali those comments are absolutely ridiculous. She could absolutely do it on her own if she wanted too.. and a baby doesn’t necessarily need 2 parents either! Why would you willingly stay in a relationship if your not happy, being disrespected for the sake of a baby, potentially bringing your child up in that environment which could end up effecting them in the long run & give the child a whole load of issues. I’d rather be alone and struggle than potentially damage my child.

@Courtney yes!!!! This! She’s bloody blocked me now

@Rachel has she hahahaha! They are such bizarre things too say!🤯 like how do people not know that these things can potentially damage their children. That would be like my staying with my sons dad arguing all the time, not getting on with each other, shouting & swearing just because he needs 2 parents & I wouldn’t be able to do it alone😂 so so strange to me that she would even say those things tbh. I’d much rather be alone & struggle than be somewhere unhappy and my kid end up being an unstable adult🙄🙄

@Courtney I’m assuming so because I can’t see her comments but I can see your tag to her comments 😂 The part for me where she tells the OP to abort her child because a child should only be born through love and not an oops baby completely sent me over the edge. She finished this with “ you see it all the time on the news in America” I thought we aren’t blooming in American what’s that got to do with the price of cheese! Absolutely children are so much more loved and mentally healthier when there’s no difficult environment constantly surrounding them! And then to say the OP can’t be a single mum because she’s not made of steel! Obviously she wasn’t one of the women fighting for same gender rights if she thinks her family wouldn’t cope without a man! Insane statements where made from this women and absolutely nothing supportive to the young girl posting!

@Rachel I know that’s wild!! Looking at her profile she’s from America.. but let’s face it America is weird & posts from people I’ve seen from people there are also weird 😂😂 My son is much happier now that’s for sure! & he loves my daughters dad & he was also much happier when it was just the 2 of us! Tbf it just screams I’d stay in any situation because I couldn’t cope on my own with children🤦🏼‍♀️ If damaged adults because of your own actions is what you want then by all means crack on but I know what id prefer.. some people just never fail to amaze me, I’m sure I’ve seen other stupid comments on stuff from her too other people too