Exact same here, I end up soaked because she tries to climb out over me. I've started rinsing her hair with the shower rather than pouring water over. I figure if she hates it anyway I may as well get the shampoo out quicker using the shower! I tried one of the crowns but she won't keep it on.
I use a wet flannel and just keep dipping it and sweeping it over her head gently until her hair is wet enough. Then put a little conditioner in where needed and ‘rinse’ that off the same way. I don’t find my daughter needs an actual shampooing tho, soapy bath water is enough and only wash like this every 5 days or so
Same here 🫠 don't have a fix unfortunately although I've seen these crown things you can buy for them to wear to keep the water off their face so I'm going to give that a try and see if it helps xx