I am confused

My marriage Is just 3years, and I have Twins, earlier in the marriage, I found out that he cheated during the courtship, with several ladies, and also was having emotional affairs after we got married, he apologized and I forgave him because we never had sex during the courtship. Later on I discovered that he still continued having emotional affairs, cos I checked his phone, he never slept with anyone of them, but their chats would be about him liking the and sometimes wanting a relationship with them, and these ladies are not always the same, he would chat with some for months and move to another set, the confusing thing is, if not for my intuition, he is the sweetest husband and father, Recently I just found out he had some ladies in locked chat, and I can imagine what thir discussion is about.

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Sorry but I'm Confronting him And if Denys or can't tell me why: I'm Out

I would suggest counseling. For him on his own, an you two together. It sounds like he has issues with needing to be wanted, and the attention is filling a void/need/addiction for him. I'm not a therapist, so I'm just throwing that out there. But one would be very helpful for both of you.

I would gather all this evidence for court. You & your kids deserve better. A sweet husband doesn't repeatedly cheat on his wife and a sweet father doesn't ruin his family. This isn't just one time or even twice to consider counseling. It's multiple, that you KNOW about. He knows what he's doing.