Is it normal to have no sensation?

Finally had sex post partum and I feel nothing. My partner is well endowed below we used a bunch of lube as this is the first time. And it felt like nothing I couldn't feel anything inside. I could feel outside stimulation on my clitoris and breast. I even put my finger in there and nothing. Am I just broken? Like after kids it's just a gaping hole of nothing. Or will sex get better?

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It gets better over time

I never felt anything before my baby was born lol I choose not to have sex postpartum. I gave in a few times initially but haven’t since I’m sure it’ll get better for you in time

I'm almost 7 months postpartum and sex was really painful for me In the beginning it's better now but still can hurt in the beginning if I'm not relaxed enough.

I had the same issue after having both my boys. I got all feeling back about 1 1/2-2 months post partum.

@Jordan it's just odd feeling numb like no sexual gratification at all inside where normally I would. But I'm happy to know that's normal and should go back to normal. I truly was feeling disconnected.

I understand. It really does suck. I had such a low sex drive because of it because I didn't see the point in doing anything if I wasnt feeling anything

I can feel but it can be really painful sometimes hoping it gets better after time I’m 5 months pp

@amber the pain afterwards is unbelievable it's just not good. I'll wait longer but yeah it's not that I'm don't feel anything it's that I don't feel any sexual pleasure at all from it. Normal I do. It just wasn't enjoyable at all.

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