I feel betrayed by my husband, he is flirting around with different girls online, no respect for me, he picked there call when beside me, he doesn’t care about my feelings, no matter what I did to please him he always not satisfied, always nagging and complaining, he have never for once appreciate me. Have complained to my parents and the only thing they use to say is that I should be patient that he will change. Today now I caught him ordering food for a lady and me that is his wife he promised to take me out today but he cancelled the outing and said he is not feeling well. And I’m pregnant but I feel lonely, I don’t have any friend that I can talk to, my parents did not understand how I’m feeling. I’m depressed right now, have been crying since because I’m just thinking if you truly love someone why is he cheating on me. He doesn’t care about my condition 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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I’m not sure what you’re beliefs are or what your culture is. But I do know that having a child with someone means a lot, especially when it’s your husband. You deserve respect, love and support, especially during this time.
I know it might seem odd to leave a marriage at this time but think about the stress it will cause you to stay and continue to be treated like this. You could be separating yourself and using this time to bond with your baby and create a life where you feel more at peace. You don’t want to continue to fight with anxiety, lack of support, anger, sadness. Remember that baby can feel everything you feel, you don’t want them to feel all of that pain.
Do what you think is best at the end of the day. But remeber to heal. And speak up.

Sorry you feel so alone. Pregnancy and birth are huge, sacred and so draining - you deserve respect and genuine support in every aspect- mentally , emotionally, spiritually . Create a space you would want to be raised in and allow your energy to go towards yourself and your baby, it’s better to have healthy parents apart than chaos and hostility in the same house imo

He sound just like my ex-husband. What i will tell you is pls stop stressing yourself and pls stop thinking about he. Doesn't care about darling all he thinking about it himself

You can always talk to me you have people but pls put yourself and the baby first. Thinks about yourself now and the baby