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Sorry you feel so alone. Pregnancy and birth are huge, sacred and so draining - you deserve respect and genuine support in every aspect- mentally , emotionally, spiritually . Create a space you would want to be raised in and allow your energy to go towards yourself and your baby, it’s better to have healthy parents apart than chaos and hostility in the same house imo
First u need to know u have plenty of friends u can talk you! Right ladies?! We’re all here for you! I’m a firm believer that staying 2gether just for kids is not a good reason enough to stay. U need to b happy with urself & ur life so u can be the amazing mother ur meant to be. Baby knows when mama is sad & u so deserve to b happy n treated right. U gotta do what u gotta do is best for you. Me n mine were 2gether 5yrs planned a baby & b4 he was 2 our relationship was over bc he refused to stop living life like he was a 25yo frat boy & then found out after it ended he’d been running round behind my back long b4 I called it quits. Today me n him have a great relationship bc that’s how we want it for the sake of our son doesn’t mean I struggle not letting loose sometimes but I remember y I keep my cool, for the baby. Do what u gotta do to b happy!
He sound just like my ex-husband. What i will tell you is pls stop stressing yourself and pls stop thinking about he. Doesn't care about darling all he thinking about it himself
You can always talk to me you have people but pls put yourself and the baby first. Thinks about yourself now and the baby
I’m not sure what you’re beliefs are or what your culture is. But I do know that having a child with someone means a lot, especially when it’s your husband. You deserve respect, love and support, especially during this time. I know it might seem odd to leave a marriage at this time but think about the stress it will cause you to stay and continue to be treated like this. You could be separating yourself and using this time to bond with your baby and create a life where you feel more at peace. You don’t want to continue to fight with anxiety, lack of support, anger, sadness. Remember that baby can feel everything you feel, you don’t want them to feel all of that pain. Do what you think is best at the end of the day. But remeber to heal. And speak up.