Major insecurity

How long have you been together?

That’s a sign that it’s time for you to heal because he could be the right man for you but then if you are not trying to heal and do the inner spiritual mental emotional help then that will push a man away….you have to realize how valuable and worth you are and how much God/Jesus loves you…other’s peoples/men’s decisions are never a reflection of you but a reflection of themselves…trust me I know I been there…that broken wound maybe from a father or just men that were supposed to treat you right is a very deep wound…and no one can force you to believe anything but you do deserve love, you do deserve a good man/husband…this is a way of self sabotaging yourself because deep down inside you may not believe you deserve love and I mean the kind of love from a man that is sacrificial…start with your self love and that will radiate out into ever space in your life…I pray healing love peace joy and strength for you in Jesus Name Amen

I get it but if you want to better your relationship and yourself for your partner I would honestly recommend therapy for yourself. If you don’t heal the past how can you ever continue living in future? Not every man is the same and I’m sorry to hear how much you have been through. It’s not just about being insecure, it’s about you now being obsessive over it, not trusting him and if he hasn’t given you a reason to not trust him then all you’re doing is hurting yourself and him more. The thing is, a lot of people won’t put up with you starting fights and you not trusting them because it is toxic. Get some therapy for yourself girl, start the healing process now if you want it to work out. Over time it does get better, work on building a healthy relationship and trust. Stop starting fights, if you feel you are getting upset and insecure then take yourself away and calm yourself before having a calm conversation with your partner. Also ask him what he wants in this relationship, both of

You should listen to each other and respond. It only works if the both of you are willing to let down your guards, let each other in and be super vulnerable with each other. The best things can come from being that way. You build an unbreakable wall, no one is going to be able to get through. Don’t let what other people did take control of you and give up your chance at happiness

You have to work on yourself because it will destroy your relationship if you let your trust issues affect things. I'd look into therapy.

I think you stepped into a relationship too early after the last ones without healing and now projecting your insecurities onto him. But now that you’re here, voice that to him and he can assure you and lessen your worries by him being totally open and honest. Sending snaps of where he is. We do it anyway, because we have a snap streak and I like sending him snaps and letting him know what I’m up to who I’m with, without him asking. If I get to a place I’ll snap. What I’m eating I’ll snap. When I’m leaving to go home I’ll snap. We also do that because we don’t have location of each other, we don’t track. So it’s our form of communication even though there’s no trust issues between either of us, it’s just something we do. (I’m also sending it to others) Instead of him asking me “have you left yet?” He just waits for my snap when I’m in the car about to drive home at 1am etc. so he can look at the time and be like, ok she’ll be home in 30 give or take a few mins. Ask him for snaps.