in laws

so me and my boyfriends mom have issssuessss, long story short i’ll never be good enough for her son and she’s made that PERFECTLY CLEAR. anyway, my issue currently is that she told her entire family that my boyfriend should’ve stayed with his ex, raised her baby, and gotten her pregnant, instead of doing all of the above with me… his mom and aunt like and comment on all of the exs posts, talk shit on me to the ex. like me as a woman, a mom, a partner, all of it. WHILE i’m pregnant with HER GRANDCHILD and raising my daughter, which my boyfriend has always claimed as his own. Am i insane for not wanting the mom and sister around? like they don’t even acknowledge me when they come into MY house, idk. and will act like they don’t know me or my daughter unless my boyfriend is around. and if he is around then they’ll be all lovey dovey to my daughter. it’s all just a show to stay on his good side. and my boyfriend just says “that’s my mom what am i supposed to do” IDK MAYBE STICK UP FOR ME FOR ONCE? like idk. i’m so over it i feel crazy and unheard and im just ready to leave atp… it’s been a year and a half of straight disrespect, she’s tried fighting me, she’s screamed at me and told me she’d let my baby starve… i can’t deal with this for the rest of my life. or is that not fair to my boyfriend? idk like. they make me feel gaslit and manipulated every day of my life.

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Get therapy and your dude need to step up to his family I understand families have favorite spouses exes etc but since he been with you for some time they need to leave you alone now he’s with you not here

Who cares what your mother in law thinks about you at the end of the day. If you’re enough for your husband, then that should be all that matters. Don’t let her get to you 🩵

@Zelfa 6 months ago i would say i am without a doubt! then there was a “break” and cheating, where he talked to said ex… slept with someone else.. it’s just hard to get back into that mindset, and to truly believe that he doesn’t deep down think that they are right. we got back together because of this pregnancy, so it’s just very hard to get over the fact that he’d possibly be with her if i hadn’t become pregnant. if that makes sense..

@Zelfa amen

I get that. Mine cheated me on while pregnant and kept seeing both women for the first 2 months of our baby’s life before he broke it off with them to work it out with me. It’s been reallly hard and choosing to forgive has been a choice I have to make every time I get upset about it. You have to decide whether you’re going to move past it genuinely or you’ll be miserable forever, constantly comparing yourself to other women. Take into consideration if he responded with genuine remorse and how he treats you now. Breaking up with someone you have kids with is a big choice. You HAVE to be okay for the kids weather that’s alone or with that man.

@Zelfa i’m going to message you if that’s okay? you’ve been through a very similar situation and a question that i have mayyyy be a little tmi..

Of course, I’m here for you 😊🩵

Cut them out of your life and they shouldn’t be allowed access to your kids. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now, you deserve peace, you deserve better. This sounds like sheer jealously and childish middle school games. Best way of dealing with it, is to not and enjoy yourself with your beautiful children.

YES! I swear this woman is GROWN and acting so immature and childish. and due to things that have happened in the past, i don’t trust her around my babies alone, and i don’t think that i ever will. if you can say these mean and nasty things to me, about me, and about my kids, then what are you willing to say to my kids…. it’s not a safe environment for me or them, mentally or physically. @Sanna

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