Baby getting passed around

I’m unsure if it’s just me and I hope what I’m feeling is normal but in the beginning when my baby was small and a new born I totally understood why everyone wanted to pass our baby around for a cuddle. He was small and cute and cuddly and although my hormones made me want my baby back I did it so everyone can get a chance. My baby is now 4 and a half months old and people are still wanting to just pass him around all the time. I don’t know if it’s just me but he’s now at the stage where he is happy and content untill he’s passed around loads. I understand a hello and goodbye cuddle but I just feel he should be allowed to not be passed around anymore. Am I wrong for thinking like this?

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No your not wrong for thinking this x

Not wrong at all! I have a family lunch out tomorrow and am debating leaving my LG at home with her Dad because I literally dread her being passed around! I always feel like she looks so uncomfortable with other people too 🫣

@Charlotte it’s so stressful watching their face isn’t it and i never have the guts to say no either so just have to sit and watch

I rarely let anyone hold my boy, i absolutely hate seeing him passed from one to the next x

One way I found helps is to baby wear. If my daughter is in a sling it makes pass the baby impossible

Thank you to everyone for commenting! It’s definitely made me feel at ease x

So we went out but with less people than expected which I was happy about! But my Dad still managed to get her upset, blowing raspberries in her face when I went to the loo 🫣 I’d spoken to him about me not wanting people passing her around so he didn’t pick her up but still got all in her face 😭 Because she is giggling now everyone tries so hard to get her to do it and it drives me insane. I had to also tell my sister to stop tickling her! Literally just want to hibernate with her until she is like 2 🤣.

@Charlotte is that an option 😅

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