I’m living this right now. Tell him what you need done around the house. My partner is now doing dishes and hoovering etc . It’s not great but it’s something to help. Good luck
I have tried this and then it just slides back into the old habits! I think I already know the answer I’m just scared to commit to ending the relationship
My thought are— You have to tell him right now what your needs are and be open to what he says and see if there is a way where you can both combine another. This is a partnership, you’re in this together. If he doesn’t show willingness to step up, then trust that this is the behavior he will bring into your marriage. You’re a baby and a half deep into this haha Now is the time for him to show up.