About mother in law.

So my mother in law hardly sees my kids. And when she comes over to visit she expects us to make her dinner and she always comes sick and my boyfriend doesn’t have the heart to tell her to not come over and she wants to hold my 2 month old. The last time she was at my house she went and told my boyfriend that she wants my boyfriend to get a dna test for the kids because she doesn’t think they are his. It’s ridiculous already. I don’t know what to do at this point.

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Say hey since you don’t believe our kids are his and concerned about it why dont you pay for DNA?

Well hopefully that's the last time she comes to your house after telling your partner to get a DNA test. Wouldn't want her vibes in your house. Toxic

Don’t tolerate that kind of disrespect bc it will get worse and MILs like that will intentionally emotionally manipulate your kids

You need to communicate how you feel about this to your husband and explain that if she behaves that way she won’t be permitted to see the kids as she’s going to begin to treat them the way she treats you one day. She only disrespects you because he allows it. Once he stands his ground and says that she cannot treat you that way she will begin to change her tune but only when he puts his foot down. I have traditional Chinese in laws and went through the ringer but I made my husband change his tune from “feeling so bad” for his mother to standing up to her and now things are INCREDIBLY different and we all get along (for the most part) honestly the last straw for me was when she argued with me over changing my sons diaper for almost 10 mins …. lol

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