Ready meals

Is it acceptable to give your 15 month old essentially ready meals for dinner every night? Like the Heinz ones etc.

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I wouldn’t say it’s not acceptable as each to their own but personally I wouldn’t. Have you ever tried them? They’re so boring and I feel like the majority all taste the same. It’s much easier to just give them what you’re having and I feel it’s more enjoyable for them

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As a one off, it's fine but every night, not really. I often batch cook and set aside portions for my son. There's also some meals that we don't like reheated (mac & cheese for example) so I make a bit more so I've got extra just for him. Then I've always got easy meals to hand if I need them and I know they are homemade. There's definitely better alternatives to ready meals

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Have you seen the toddler meals in Tesco? By little kitchen and annabel karmel? These are a better alternative with less salt for little ones.

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Acceptable is an odd choice of wording. Would you survive just fine on ready meals every night? Yes. But is it very nutritious? No. I think especially for young babies and children that are developing so fast we should be making an effort when it comes to their nutrition.

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I wouldn't every night. Once in a while is ok

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Tbh not really, you should focus on whole food not processed food

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Tbh, no, because they're boring and taste so bland! Plus, that gets super expensive! Get yourself a decent baby cookbook and make things yourself, as you can freeze portions

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I wouldn't even that myself let alone my child

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my 2 year old loves these especially the mac and cheese bolognese

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I don’t understand- do you mean actual ready meals or baby pouches / baby food? X

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The little kitchen ones and annabel as mentioned above are better. The best thing is your baby/toddler is fed so I guess if you're asking as that's your only means of being able to feed your child then of course x

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I wouldn't, I mean if I'm cooking for myself anywhere she'll just eat that, or have left overs from the night before.

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I keep some in my freezer incase my son doesn’t want to eat what we’re having & he absolutely loves them! If your in Nz at woolworths you can buy little meals that are delicious & full of veg

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I usually have a couple little dish or Annabel Karmel meals in the freezer just incase but not an everyday thing x

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For dinner last night my 16 month old had an adults portion of microwave spaghetti bolognaise & my 5 year old had an adults portions of microwave chicken & bacon pasta. In all honesty I don’t care as long as they have a warm meal in their tummy before bed. I give them a microwave meal maybe once/twice a week depending on how I feel🤷🏼‍♀️

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Salt. Eek

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I’m a lazy parent then 👍🏻 but you also have no idea what my kids eat throughout the day & the rest of the week. Judging just from 1 meal is outrageous!

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haha ok hun. But my kids eat ready meals once or twice a week (at a push) & are both very healthy & have home made meals the rest of the time. I personally don’t think it really matters as long as a child has a warm meal in their tummy before bed 🥰

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jasmine didn’t actually write the post - incognito did.

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hang on. Yeah I’ve just re-read what she said. wtf I didn’t write it😂😂

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had to say something because you could feel the judgeyness from a mile away 🤣

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thank you so much x

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Sorry I accidentally clicked yes, personally for me it’s a no, but I would meal prep your own meals and pop them in a freezer for convenience x

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Thank you for your responses, I’d just like to clarify this is NOT about me or what I feed my child. I went incognito because the ‘friend’ is also on here, although I’m sure it wouldn’t have taken a genius to figure out who I was on about😅 I was trying to explain to her that she shouldn’t give ready meals everyday and she said she thought it was okay as long as her child was eating.

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if it's all you can do, it's okay

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didn’t create any confusion for me lol, was just telling you Jasmine didn’t create the post 🤷🏻‍♀️

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My concern would be salt/sodium content, because too much salt can damage their fragile, developing baby kidneys. Check the nutrition facts and consult with a pediatrician for sure.

A super quick, super healthy microwavable dinner option for toddlers are steam-in-bag frozen vegetables, served with rice:) no need to be fancy.

And in the case of a toddler rejecting vegetables, simply introducing and reintroducing the same vegetables about nine times, WITHOUT pressure (literally just put it in front of them, with a backup dinner for if/when they reject the veggies), and within a month long period, almost always results in them finally trying it and liking it! There is a TON of research on this.

Keep at it! It can have a huge impact on their future health, academic performance, emotional wellbeing and relationship with food.

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you’re a stay at home mum. Not a full time working mum. Don’t be so judgemental until you’ve been in a position. You might have time to make meals everyday but that doesn’t stop you being a role model to your child to be a nice person.

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