Birth & Sex
So Q: if you gave birth 5 weeks ago and you are horny and your partner refuses you consistently. How would that make you feel?
My partner is reasoning for not wanting sex is because he’s afraid for another one. & that “I see how you are with this one”
That statement blew my mind. I said “oh so you see how good I am with her, how attentive with her? How my whole world revolves around her?
So, my partner and I are in a huge fight because I consider looking at porn as cheating. And that’s what he’s been doing.
What should I do?
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I would not be having sex with them at all. That is so rude! I would loose my mind. And the porn on top of that. Nope. There is a deeper issue. Maybe he’s afraid to have sex because you just had a baby and he’s afraid to admit it? Maybe he’s afraid it’ll feel different (news flash it does for a few weeks, but it’ll go back to how it was). Idk if I could move past that comment. I would ask if he’s open to couples therapy. That would be the only way I think you could work through this personally.
I’m in the same boat here…
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I also brought up that we can use condoms if that’s what it is or I’ll just get on BC. He hung up on me.