I am so fed up

I need a rant sorry I ask my partner to do jobs around the house and sometimes he will do it but more often, he won't/doesn't think The other day, I came home from work and was just about to head out to collect our daughter from nursery I look around the house which is generally a little untidy due to toys and what not, but there were unwashed pots in the sink and on the side, bin was full to the brim, recycling was full in 2 bags, his clothes and towels were on the side (I asked him a few days ago to take them upstairs along with towels), when I asked him why he had not done any of this he said he was busy, when asked what with he said he was doing stuff on his game. He pretty much always does this, also he makes little snarky comments and tries to crack jokes about not doing stuff I went mad! He would rather spend all day playing on his computer than help I have told him I can't deal with this shit all the time But then he will get upset with me for not being intimate with him I'm like wtf, I work full time, I deal with our daughter the days I get off, he has her 1 day for 2/3 hours and then the house is a mess which I try to keep on top of and I'm asked by him for cuddles and kisses and intimacy 🙄