Not sure where you are, I'm in Orange. Regardless of where you are id be happy to be a testing buddy if you'd like one! I just had a baby boy in December and I've done 2 under 2 so I understand!
I’m in Somerville but drive. I don’t have two under two but had a baby last August. Fortunately I do have a village but understand that sometimes as moms you also need a mental break, someone to vent to, hold the baby so you can shower etc. If it’s not too late ask your OB for a referral to a postpartum doula. Mine was there when I gave birth and was available for home visits after. They can take care of the baby at your home while you rest. They can also do light housework too.
Feel free to message me hunny I’m In Boston but drive!
Hii yess I have a similarity with the bonding over trauma from my sons father feel free to message me