What would you do if family want to see your child but doesn’t talk to you?

So it’s a close relation I’m referring to, ie your husbands sister. What if she has always been hot and cold with you, then it would be that she is nice and happy with everyone else and dismissive to you and sometimes just ignores you. She does this to her own family sometimes too, so it’s very much her personality. So how would you be if she does the above but interacts with your young children when she sees them which is at her parents house when the kids are over. Would it bother you? Would you be ok as long as she’s fine with them etc? My hubby takes them over so I’m not there during those times

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I've been in this situation afew times. I keep my personal feelings aside and let my child engage with them as long as there's no negative impact coming off it. I will be polite but take a backseat in the interactions myself.

In personal opinion anyone who doesn’t like the mother is toxic to the child in one way or another. Try talking to her and find out the reason for her being hot and cold towards you

I feel like I’ve seen this scenario several times on here so not sure if it’s you who keeps posting the same thing looking for people to agree with you but personally I feel it’s his sister, she has every right to have a relationship with the children despite her relationship with you. As long as she treats them well it wouldn’t be an issue for me

I wouldn't let my baby be around someone who doesn't like or respects me (or vice versa) without me present. Doesn't matter if it's husband's sister or other relative. When my child will be old enough to make own decisions will visit or meet. Till then, no.

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