Am I being unreasonable
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@Lisa Marie he says he doesn’t want to stay with the baby in the same room and doesn’t t like staying at peoples houses which I get. But at end of day it’s me who would have to be travelling back and forth on an hour round trip as well as sorting the baby out irs just not really fair
It's reasonable for him to go home to sleep if he wants. But he ABSOLUTELY has to drive back the next day and pick you up!!
Then you got my 100% support
Personally I don't like staying anywhere but my own home and have my own routine with my daughter at home that I'm comfortable with but that's just me. Everyone is different. If you are comfortable staying and he's not then he should be fine with you staying and you fine with him going. He could pick you up though since you would have to have made that drive anyway if you went home. Right?
@Jen so my issue is we were there on the evening anyway and if LG didn’t sleep over then it would have been a rush coming back home to get her settled for bed to then have to go back to my parents to drop her off next day. With mr bring the one who has to do the journey back and forth I can’t leave her for two nights currently so wanted to stay the night with her.
In my eyes you are right when it comes to convenience. On the other hand I don’t know the background on why he doesn’t want to stay. Is he uncomfortable? Does he eventually not feel welcome? Maybe you should talk to him about his reasons.