This started with my second almost 3 years ago. I have found that during the winter it's worst. It's only on my hands and washing dishes or washing my hands causes it. The best treatment for me is lotion or hand cream then go right over it with Vaseline.
Omg wait the same thing has been happening to me!!! I'll apply aquaphor, lotion, baby cream and it helps for a little bit but it never fully goes away. My skin gets so dry it cracks and bleeds it's nuts and im so over itđ im gonna try nipple butter next cause atp idk what to do (also I share a birthday with your baby i thought that was super cool! :) )