2 under 2

Hi ladies how are you all. How is everyone coping with 2 under 2. Coz I am finding it difficult and it seems like every thing I do doesn’t go in plan. My son is 16month old and baby is 3 month old. Any advice would be great

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It gets easier, then gets harder again. The first three months was terrible then things were looking up till my daughter turned one and then we are back in the hard stage. Try enjoy the small good moments, not everything goes to plan. Always feels like you’ve got routine and plans and then something happens and that all goes out the window

Omg I’m in that situation right now I’m doing everything I can but I feel like I’m letting my family down xx

@Reshma I feel exactly the same as you! I feel like I’m hardly giving any time to my son because the baby needs me 😔 It’s been harder than I ever imagined xx

I have three under two a 15 month old and twins are 5 months I manage to well the school has said If they were my first id probably struggle more It’s just doing what your able too sometimes i find going out is easier than being at home

2u2 was so rough for me. Mine are now 2 under 4. But it was hard. Especially when I wasn’t able to do much for my toddler for the first 2 months after the baby was born. I had a c-section and I couldn’t lift or get down on the floor to play. And I was solo because my partner went back to work the following week (baby wasn’t even a week old yet). So it was rough on me, mentally, physically, emotionally. It was hard in the beginning. It got easier and now we’re hitting the hard again. But it’s all worth it.