Girls Girl

Unpopular opinion: I truly believe it is hard being a girls girl. Yes, we should totally support one another. We already go through so much. But man, some girls are stupid. A few examples are I have one friend who wasn't happy in her relationship with her BD. Her and BD decided to be on a break but yet they are living together cause she doesn't work. She's fooling around, and he finds out. She was so close on getting kicked out, that she even called me crying. I tell her if you ain't happy just fuckn leave. Why do all of that? And then there's my other girlfriend, who i kept on telling to leave her BD cause he ain't shit. He leaves her and his daughter without, while he goes out with friends. And if hes feeling generous he'll bring her, his leftovers.And then she tells me that she's prego. I tell her to terminate the pregnancy. Yes, I fuckn told her that. She's already suffering as is. Her mom is out in Arizona who gives her like $30 a week or so. Her dad is dead. So now she has two kids in diapers. She told BD that the baby needs more diapers. And then this motherfucker tells her to go buy some. With what fuckn money? From her ass? And I told her now you and your babies are struggling and suffering because you didn't leave this idiot. He clearly does not care about you guys. So tell me, is being a girls girl hard? Cause to me it's exhausting. And I ain't ashamed to say it 💁🏾‍♀️

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Finally someone who isn’t afraid to say it!!! It’s so draining having to try and be supportive when they just refuse to listen and stay in that situation 🙃 then they cry and complain about it like um???? I said my piece it’s up to you on what you do

I just don’t associate with people like that… also it’s really all about your point of view. It may seem stupid to you but in reality it has more to do with trauma and self worth. I would try to encourage them to work on themselves but you can’t force anyone to do anything. If it’s stressing you out wish them the best and create some distance. I say this because I was a “stupid” girl once and then I worked on myself and built up my self esteem, my self worth. Stopped accepting lame ass scrubs and that’s how i met my amazing bf. When I see girls in that position I just think… you poor thing, I hope you heal sooner than later.

To each their own thoe 🤷🏽‍♀️

I love girls like you honestly because friends need HONEST friends and I’m a honest friend but I also have some sympathy for girls because I have been through a lot and I know if I made it through all that BS anyone can to so makes me sad seeing some girls just accept that life for there selves and for there kids

I feel like telling your girl friends the hard truth IS you being a girls girl. You’re telling them what they need to hear without leaving and abandoning them to deal alone yk? My ex best friend and I were like this and told each other shit we NEEDED to hear and we continued to show each other love and be supportive but toughly 💞 that’s my idea of a girls girl being supportive but being real

I had a friend that can’t moved on from her abusive ex it’s been yeeeeeaaaaars and we are still talking about the same problem. When the ex is trying to talk to her she keeps on responding back. It’s like a cycle that never ends. I used to sugarcoat everything i say to her, til one day I told her an honest advice and while I was heavily pregnant and hormonal so I’am more brave to say anything my mind says. And I feel like she felt like I was bad friend for not supporting her. When I just want her to wake up from her delulu. I just got tired of her not listening and now she distanced herself and not talking to me.😐

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