Speaking from experience it shouldn’t be painful after the first few days. Where are you based? Have you considered getting the latch assessed/seeing a lactation consultant?
I didn't find it painful but very intense for the first latch every time for the first 6 weeks. Then it got better. Keep up the great work mama! And by 3 months your boobs will regulate and get softer. This is normal. 👍
i found around the 1 month mark the worst bit, i was in so much pain latching the baby on initially (the actual feed was normally okay after the first bit), it got so so much better around 7/8 weeks for me.
Bless you, it can be so hard at the beginning, I was the same and it started to get better around 6 weeks and no pain by 8. Are you able to put baby in different positions to help ease it? I found laying my baby on her front on my tummy was a more comfortable latch. You've got this, you're doing amazing!!