Your husband never goes out. Finally goes out twice a week with coworkers, are you blowing his phone up while he’s out?
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I wouldn’t blow his phone up. I will want him to enjoy himself, just don’t come home at strange hours.
No as long as he’s being safe I wouldn’t care
As long as he isn't making a habit of two plus nights out with coworkers I wouldn't care. But I also wouldn't blow up his phone if he was making it a habit. I would just talk to him and come up with an agreement of how often is appropriate for us both to be out. Then make sure to schedule fun time for myself to go out as well lol sounds like you're jealous and not trusting if you're blowing up his phone for him hanging out with friends.
Nope. He doesn’t ring me and I don’t ring him when we’re out, unless it’s emergency. Even if he’s late it’s just a question “are you otw home yet” I don’t ring him even then. He’ll usually ring me to pick him up (and one of his besties that live close) to drop them home coz they’ve been drinking so in that case I’m waiting for his call. And when I’m out my phones not even on me, it’s in my bag on the chair/bench I check it maybe every half hr. I’ll send him a snap when I’m in the car otw home so he knows okay she’ll be home in 30 give or take
Twice a week EVERY week? I’d have a problem with that. Like you are a parent too! Get your booty home and spend time with your children,
I’d text him every so often. Just being like hey how’s it going. Or I’d update him on whatever are doing. And I’d ask him to update me on when he plans to leave and all that. But it wouldn’t be blowing up because his phone usually is on silent for work and what not so he’d just check it when he could.
I check in, send memes randomly but no blowing up. He reaches out too but i let him be so he can feel like an individual
Twice a week? Na you’ve got responsibilities. If you want to be a single man go be one.
@Haley based on the fact it said he never goes out and he goes out twice a week I assumed it was not every week but more of a special occasion type thing. If it was EVERY week I would have a very very different answer cause absolutely not
Absolutely not. Especially if he’s coming home at a reasonable hour.
Are you talking about the person whose husband said he would be gone for a couple hours, was gone for 7, missing dinner and bed time? Then he did it again after saying he wouldn't and would stay in contact?
If this was you twisting that person's post so you can suggest that they are bitter and worried, that's weird.
@Zainab🗝️ I wondered this too!
@Zainab🗝️ Awww I hope not! That’s so mean if that’s the case. That’s why I don’t like incognito posts sometimes :(
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@Lydia I hope not too.
@Elizabeth ah I see. I guess I read it like he never used to go out. And now he is twice a week. Yeah twice in a week is okay as long as it’s not an every week thing!
@Haley no not every week. This one time
@Siobhan it was a 1 week thing not every week that was be insane
@Zainab🗝️ no why are trying to start problems? Everything on here isn’t to start a argument
Is it starting a problem if less than 12 hours ago someone posted that their husband went out twice and didn't keep in touch and now there is an incognito with the same sort of scenario but with only yes option suggesting someone is bitter and I'm pointed that out? I don't think so
Is this happening to you currently? or it this a hypothetical situation? Because the way your worded it, sounds like you’re speaking about someone else’s situation. I think think Zainab has every right to assume you’re referring to that post.
Sounds like everyone here can handle their children by themselves. And won't go crazy about being left at home with small children if you have any. Cause I'm sure it's different when you have little ones and your partner is always out and about while you stay and care for the kids.
I don’t blow up my husband’s phone. He would enjoy himself while he’s out but also communicates with me his whereabouts, what he’s doing, ect,. but also checks in with me and how I’m doing, how’s the kids. I do the same with him too when I’m out.
If my wife let me know ahead of time and then came home when she said she would, I wouldn't have an issue. She can go out every week with a friend. That wouldn't bother me. I want her to have a life outside of us. So for sure go out and enjoy herself. But if she said she was gonna go for a couole of drinks and just a couple of hours and now its past bedtime and I'm going to bed and still haven't heard from you...that's a fucking problem. Communication is simple. "Hey, I know I said xyz but I'm going to be out and little later. I'm having fun. Can I get you a treat on the way home? Love you" would be 👌🏾👌🏾 and then if we got over that and she did it again?! That is a problem.
No I wouldn't. If he isn't working on the weekend I'd go out with friends then