Ahh why did I go looking

So mine And my son dad relationship been complicated (whole long story) anywayssss we sleeping together and getting on great. However I’m aware he had a thing with cam girls me been me went looking and logged on his account. Instant regret! I found everything. To the point he spending hundred a week and watching 3/4 private’s one after another. There is also trans females with the male part still. What the hell do o do now? He changed the password so he got an email saying new log in. Which also states phone and location so he’ll absolutely know I’ve been on it. We don’t live together he faced time me but I ignored it cause I feel sick after finding it all. I dropping me off at work in the morning as he picks our son up for the day. Helpppoop

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Have you ever suspected he could be gay prior to this ?

@Katie not necessarily gay. Could be just a kink. My aunt is trans still has the man parts. Her clients are mostly straight married men with wifes who just had a interesting past

@Katie nah and I think it’s more he looking for new things to watch as I’ve looked and he on it every day spending and spending.

I have seen this a lot more common than we think with straight men which may seem odd to us females since it’s something definitely different than what we think. This can definitely be something you both shoukd talk about if you think it’s worth having something with him. The fact that he is spending money definitely makes things more difficult since it’s different.

@Elisa I’ve tried talking to him so many times before but he shuts it down and then avoids me for a while. I think it’s an addiction he needs help with but that only something he can decide. It just hurt to see it all like Valentine’s Day he rang me at 11:20pm to say happy valentine day said he was busy with work stuff anyways I saw when on his account earlier he was in a live with 3 different girls that night before calling me then as soon as he got off the phone he was back on it on another private

@incognito maybe end it if you don’t want deal with it… those type of kinks are hard to end. They always return to them..

You deserve so much better love! You are definitely not the problem & deserve someone who values you. I do agree that it can be an addiction it’s so common now in days but it’s not normal or even heathy