The big O

Major tmi post but I’m curious to know if anyone has ever been in the same boat. I’m 21 years old and have had more than 20 sexual partners since losing my v card at 15. There’s definitely been some memorable sexual encounters but I’ve never ever orgasmed. Not by masturbation nor by a partner. It’s really been bothering me lately as my sex drive is back to being what it used to pre-pregnancy (currently 14 weeks postpartum) but after sex, my husband more often then not will bring it up that he hates that he can’t get me to O. Which ultimately I really enjoy sex with him a lot. But I’m also kinda bummed that he hasn’t been able to get me there too. So with that being said, please tell me I’m not the only one who never has. We’ve tried so many different positions, tried bringing toys into the mix. But literally nothing seems to get me there and I just feel at a loss🫣

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You’re the only one. I’m gonna be 37 this year and never had an orgasm. I don’t masturbate. Never have. I’ve been with my husband since I was 16. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’d never orgasmed until I was with my husband and it surprised me. 🤷‍♀️

@Christina🤱🏼🍂☕️♈️ I urge you to try masturbation..

@Tara I have no interest but thanks

I never orgasmed until my recent partner. It is honestly just because I would enjoy myself and he would watch. It took about 2 years for him to really know what he was doing and we talked the entire time to get it down pact. I guess just talking and opening up about what truly pleases you. It is a fun time and shouldn't be awkward.

Keep trying different things!! Trust me you'll get there, you're not broken!! LOL

I honestly never have. My husband was my first when I was 17, we're 19 now almost 20, but I've never actually gotten there, so I just kinda fake it, because I do really enjoy it with him, and I don't want him to think it's his fault. I think a chunk of why I can't has to do with the sexual trauma I had been through when I was 12 until I was 16 that really messed things up for me

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