Baby led weaning

We're gonna start baby with foods tomorrow! Planning on trying banana first, my plan is to just let him try foods for now until about 9 months and then give him more meals, what are you all planning? My health visitor said its just so he gets a taste for stuff and most of his calories should still be breastmilk till he's 1. But I keep seeing on tiktok and friends giving their 6 month old full on meals so not sure what to do x

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When I started giving my baby boy purées, he didn’t like the thinner texture. I will add oatmeal/cereal to his puree to thicken it up and he enjoyed it and ate more. Lately, I’ve been giving him mashed fruit like strawberries and bananas so he can get introduced to texture. Sometimes I will chew something up I’m eating and let him taste it and you can tell he’s getting used to different textures because he will try to chew things even though he has no teeth yet. He will be 6m on Saturday. I plan to continue what I’m doing and maybe offer him something he’s able to hold and eat on his own later. (He does eat the baby teething wafers which he can eat really well by himself )

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My pediatrician said to give iron foods due today breast milk no longer having much iron anymore, I'm planning to give my baby beans. We were also told to not start with fruit just because it's sweet so I think they might have a harder time with non sweet food moving forward. Also to start with one food at a time to check for any allergies and like you said breast milk is still their main source of food and solids are just a supplement right now more to test out solids and see if they are allergic to anything. As far as full on meals I think that's just up to the parents, I'm also still thinking if I want to just give my baby a baby version of the foods we eat like mini meals or not

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Start with veggies!! Not fruit! It’ll be harder to get them to eat veggies if you start with sweet things.
We started with avocado & Kendamil oatmeal. And remember it can take a baby up to 7 times to become accustomed to a specific food so keep introducing! Also wait 3 days in between to observe for allergies!

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My boy will be 6 months on the 6th. We started with veggies a couple weeks ago. First peas then carrots gonna try green beans then squash next! My plan was also just to introduce different taste and still do mostly milk til around 8 months then start blw and giving him what we eat. but he loves the food so much and tolerates it very well we may end up doing it earlier than expected too🙃 I’m going to ask his pediatrician about it but I’m just following his cues for the most part. That’s my advice as every baby is very different .

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We started with bananas as well. My daughter loved it. She hasn’t had an issue with veggies. So far we have done oatmeal, bananas, sweet potatoes, avocado and carrots. I alternate between fruit and veggie every time we introduce a new item. And we do wait 3 days before introducing something new. Right now she is only getting one solid a day for lunch and everything else is breastmilk. She just turned 5 months. I think at 6 months we will do 2 solids a day. I purée everything but deft introduce texture as much as possible (this is where the oatmeal comes in) cause I have a friend who only pureed her first babies food for the first year and now he is a picky eater, he hates textures lol. Follow your babies cues, they know what they want. 😉

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I started my daughter on bananas at 4.5 months. Just a heads-up—sometimes they back her up a little and make it harder for her to poop. However, mangoes were amazing! For the bananas, I puréed fresh organic ones, but I also tried Beech-Nut and Gerber brands, and she liked both.

I’d also recommend applesauce! Her pediatrician mentioned that if she ever gets backed up, puréed prunes can help. But honestly, bananas are the only food that seem to cause that for her. When that happens, I just breastfeed and hold off on solids for a day or two, and she usually poops by the next day and is fine.

Just an FYI—every baby is different, but I know bananas can sometimes cause constipation for some little ones! Good luck to you on your little ones solid food journey

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My husband has been abroad for work (1 day and exploring for 1 day) for 2 and a half days which means I’ve had both kids (1 year and 4 year old) for 2 and a half days plus cooking, cleaning, taking them to clubs, bedtimes!
He came home late afternoon and said I’m so tired, I just need to chill. I said can you wash up whilst I sort kids dinner out, he said he’ll do it later which means he won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it so I said no do it now please otherwise I’ll end up doing it and he said well you have been home and I’ve been away so you’ve just been relaxing.
Don’t know what planet he is on but having the kids alone for 2.5 days is not relaxing. I was stressed!

When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
Is that bad?

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Really bothered by this

A friend posted this and it really bothers me because that is exactly how she parents her kid, and it's rather unfortunate because when our kids hang out together, her kid has a meltdown at least 5x within an hour. We have know them for years and it's only gotten worse. My kids will concede to hers, because they don't want to see their friend crying, but it sucks because they give up so much of their toys and enjoyment to keep the peace. We aren't hanging out as much anymore but it's rather sad to think she doesn't intervene more in her child tantrums and just let's it slide

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Is this normal

Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?

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Are these men ok?

I get so sad seeing all the posts on here daily about women dealing with partners who are treating them horribly. I know it seems over represented because those of us with great partners don’t need to write posts asking for help, but I really hope most of us don’t have these kinds of men in our lives!

I tell my husband about these posts I see sometimes and he’s even shocked by some of the things these guys say/do.

Nobody’s perfect, and every relationship takes work. And becoming parents is a stress test unlike any other for sure, but seeing how many women get stuck in these relationships with men who aren’t interested in being better is so so sad😞

But is/was your partner helpful, loving, and supportive during your pregnancy/PP/etc? Was he a wonderful person but changed for the worst after becoming a parent? Has he put effort into becoming the partner you need him to be, even if he struggles?

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Pouches

I’m not one of those mums who stand in the kitchen making every meal from scratch and batches of healthy snacks as I simply do not have time with other children and soon back to a full time job, but I do try give my weaning baby part of what we eat at meal times and will throw something healthy together if what we eat isn’t suitable. However, I do have some pouches in for convenience or a last resort. I’ve only used these a few times in the space of two months but she absolutely LOVES them. She will scream for more, get excited when she sees the pouch and will literally eat the whole thing. She’s underweight so this is massive for me seeing her eat so well, but the guilt is getting to me a bit! Anybody else like a little pouch every now and then and can make me feel a little better about giving her them😅

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8 month old cry alllll the time?

I keep thinking I’m doing something wrong..

My baby has always been a crier, car seat, pram seat, nappy changes, outfit changes, nap times etc.. first 6 months we put it down to reflux, I had a lot of advice from HV/ GP as I was really struggling.

He’s improved with his reflux but I think now we are in a constant state of teething.. (he has 6 teeth now) or am I just making an excuse for his constant crying?

I can’t go on pram walks, I can’t go on drives, I have to constantly hold him/ entertain him for him to stop crying. I feel like there can’t be something up with him because the moment I hold him or entertain him he’s so happy and giggles/ babbles!

I’m just wondering if anyone is going through something similar?

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