Do you have a good man??

Feels like everyone here has a lazy partner! I’m always seeing “he doesn’t wanna have sex with me ever” “he never helps either the feeds or nights” “he won’t do chores” etc I feel like I hit it big or something that my fiance is a decent guy? I very single time we fool around or have sex he ensures I finish first, if I don’t for whatever reason he “owes” me one for next time and makes sure it’s multiple, he takes the whole nights either our restless baby so I can sleep even though he’s back at work full time, he feeds and changes her, he washes up and tidies, he buys me treats he tells me he loves me all the time he’s amazing to our baby 👀

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I often feel guilty like I can’t chime in because I have an amazing husband who spoils me. Now I can relate sometimes because I’ve been with shitty men in the past but I grew and realized what i deserve.

I tell my husband all the time that's he's such an amazing partner and parent. He always says "I genuinely feel like this should be the standard, not the gold" 😅 I agree with @Allexys , I feel guilty chiming in on those posts too, but can also relate due to past relationships. I kinda get frustrated seeing those kind of posts now though, or hearing my friends complain about their partners, because I just want to shake 'em by the shoulders and shout "HEALTHY LOVE EXISTS! STOP SETTLING FOR THE BARE MINIMUM!!" 😬💀💀

i think the ones with good men aren’t venting since there’s nothing to complain about lmao

Our baby's first fever.... he's an RN and every time our son is sick he feels like it's his fault for bringing it home from the hospital (hence the mask)

In 3.5yrs on here I’ve never needed to make a venting post about him on here, and most times on those posts I usually scroll right through because I cannot relate. He is amazing. The good men you’ll see mums bragging on IG, not peanut since peanut is for venting and solidarity. Never appreciated him more until I came on peanut tbh.

I have an amazing husband but all my ex’s were lazy and shitty people and I’m happy that they’re not parents.

My husband is amazing. He does dumb shit sometimes but so do I lol

Mine someone in the middle The worse part about him is his deep sleep when he can't hear anything And I have to repeat many things multiple times.

My husband is literally the best to rubbing my feet and sleep training our first son. He is actively involved with everything. To household chores and outdoor chores to emotional support. I'm very very lucky to have him. ☺️

Girl same and I’m beyond grateful

Mines pretty amazing too, I often am thankful previous relationships did not work out because this man is truly something special. I currently can’t relate to the venting posts but they make me appreciate mine more and aim to raise my son who will treat and share the load with his future person.

I very rarely need to vent about my husband. He can be stubborn but he's a great dad and husband. As others said, most moms probably come here to vent about their partner, not say how great they are.