Hey Ladies
Hi ladies, any one left a relationship with someone you had kids with bc they weren’t respecting you and you’ve talked about your boundaries but still broke them for example yelling and calling names ..Also getting aggressive (he’s 80% of the time not like this) But went back and they actually changed? I want to work it out but I’m scared they won’t change and they just saying they are bc they know they messed up.
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@Danielle true I told him he needs therapy but it’s up to him to do it. I think he’s waiting for me to schedule and search for a therapist but he has to do it himself. Take action on his own
My ex had therapy and hasn’t changed at all his excuses for all this and justification were that it wa all my fault and I’m the only person that could push him to his limits and those states . So even that didn’t work but everyone’s different
They don’t change. And you’ll put in a ton of work getting away from them just to end up feeling the same way you did before. Forgive and forget him completely.
People can change. But they can’t change on their own. I would say to him I’ll try and work it out as long as he does therapy. Otherwise, change will happen briefly and they go right back the behaviour that got them in trouble.