Nothing can ever be special..

My husband took away so much meaning to something that I bought for my daughters to give on Easter Day. I recently found these XL plastic Easter eggs that I planned on decorating & filling up for my daughters & I had put so much thought into the idea of it that it already seemed so special. This is my first year making some sort of Easter basket for my kids & today after my In Laws dropped off the girls, my husband blatantly took the eggs out of the truck & gave them to our five year old which then they came inside & she gave the other one to her younger sister. Call me crazy but I am genuinely upset that he did that just to be able to cheer up our oldest daughter for 2 seconds when her grandparents had to go back home. Now those temporary 2 seconds of happiness he choose to gave her, lead to me being HIGHLY upset at him for his disregard towards my feelings & how I wouldn’t be able to catch my daughters FIRST reaction to the gift I got her because he selfishly decided to take that away from me. This was the first time I was ever able to use money out of my own pocket to purchase something for the girls (SAHM struggles) & he just willingly took it upon himself to decide that it was okay for them to have them already. I don’t wanna be upset but this happens way too often for him to not get a grip already on how FUCKED UP that is towards me.
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Have you spoken to him about how these things make you feel ? When I say this I mean in a calm manner have you sat him down and explained how it makes you feel without blaming..?

You should speak and have a talk with him.

Men can be very clueless to these things. You need to calmly sit him down and say with as much detail as possible that You feel xyz when he does xyz because xyz. You are assuming he understands the level of importance that you in your mind have placed on this while he probably didn't give it a second thought. Then moving forward you should share with him anytime you want to have a special moment like this so next time he will know that said item is to be used for that special moment only. My husband thinks photos are silly but it's really important to me to have those memories so I have to tell him when I'm wanting to get something specific so that he knows.

Wooow.. he sounds like an erm (words not allowed on here) Babes speak to them and explain how much this has affected you and how you feel. If not a swift right uppercut works the same way (Guys I’m joking about the violence! .. sorta)

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