I say if you have to ask this question then it's most likely over im sorry hun🫶🏼
If you can imagine your life without your current partner it’s over
When silence happens, you are already preparing to leave in your mind.
In my opinion its over when you are abused...and that word encompasses a lot of intolerable behaviors. If you need to narrow it down to a biblical reason, you'll have to search that out of course.
If you aren’t happy and it’s something you know can’t be fixed especially after 13 years I’d recommend just calling it
I don’t have an answer, just feeling for the pain you must be feeling in asking this question. You deserve to heal and be happy and I hope you find a path towards that regardless of what it looks like
What makes u think it’s over