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I know there’s going to be a lot of people who think I’m a mug… but… my ex (baby daddy) ended our relationship 2 weeks ago, we’ve had on and off contact (mainly about our daughter) we have another baby on the way currently, to cut it short he told me he no longer felt the same about me. Since we have split up he has been living between his mum and friend, he is adamant he’s going to get his own place and he is happy on his own but tonight he asked to have sex with me?? I gave in and we had sex but he left pretty much after and said “I’ll text you” I’m quite happy just sleeping with him I’m not interested in getting to know anyone else but why would he want to sleep with me if he had no feelings?? Am I just being delulu?? 🙃😅 I’m genuinely heartbroken I love him so bad

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Idk if he sleeps with anyone else but he knows he can come have sex with you whether he’s playing an active role for you or not. I’d say kids too but you didn’t say he was exactly deadbeating y’all’s girl so

As harsh as it sounds ... I guess he knows you'll sleep with him? He's just getting what he wants from you without the commitment

Unfortunately due to being pregnant your emotions are heightened, so you're going to feel everything intensely. I feel if you take back the control & not let him decide when he gets you or doesn't it'll make it real to him that your accepting that it's over and he might realise what he's lost.. I hope you make the right decisions for your mental health long term🫶🏼

I would be super careful sleeping with him unprotected or even at all. I would suspect he’s sleeping with other women too and during pregnancy is one of the most dangerous times to catch something as herpes can actually cause birth defects and stuff. My partner and I have to use condoms the rest of my pregnancy just bc he has herp and I don’t. Just throwing that out there bc I know I didn’t know this and we only are with each other but did have to get tested when I was pregnant with my daughter and my ex cheated. It was scary

Men will have sex with anyone regardless of how they feel about them. Just make sure you’re being honest with him and most importantly, yourself- especially being pregnant with his baby 🩵

Oooo no girl. What is you doing!?!

herpes doesn’t cause birth defects.

It’s because he knows you still have feelings and he can get it from you, try the 3 day rule. No calls, no texts, no communication (apart from if he asks about the kids) if he asks for sex, just blank him. Make it known to him your not going to be used.

Dig your bar OUT of the ground please....

GIRL! Do not give him anymore coochie! PAHLEASE! He’s having his way. You sit at home with the baby, pregnant, working, he leaves you at your most vulnerable & YOU STILL sharing your body with him?? That’s a NO NO. Giving your body to a BOY who can’t even take care of himself let alone THE KIDS YALL CREATED is INSANITY. So to your question, YES you’re being delulu but ITS OK! It’s still early, still feelings but you have to buck up and stand on business! No no nookie for Mr. Pookie

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