Rainbow Baby🌈🤍

Hi Lovely! Firstly congratulations I’m so happy for you!!! I’m in a very similar situation to you. I had a MMC last August which was absolutely devastating. We then found out we were pregnant again in November. The nerves have been something else and I am so sorry you’re going through the anxiety of it all. I was very similar to you i went through periods of not feeling pregnant but that’s completely normal too. When I look back on my first pregnancy there were red flags there that hindsight indicated something was wrong. All I is just take each day as it comes. The further along you get it does get easier I promise. I’m currently 19weeks and 1 day and I can feel the flutters from the baby moving 🥰! Even now I get nervous and have moments of anxiety where I’m in tears but I each day I’m a day closer to meeting our baby girl If you’re in pain, or have bleeding call the maternity assessment centre that’s what they’re there for lovely. Xx

@Amelia thank you! I’m so sorry you’ve suffered a loss too. A huge congratulations!! I can’t wait to get to that stage and feel little flutters from my rainbow. I haven’t had any cramping or bleeding apart from at 6 weeks and I have had two scans since then to confirm everything was fine. Just anxious for Sundays scan now but hopeful that my little baby’s heart is beating away. I know if we lose this bubba too it’ll break my fiancés heart, and the guilt I felt last time was horrendous! I’m 10 weeks tomorrow so hopeful things continue to progress. It’s hard because in my last pregnancy I was so sick and really felt pregnant but I don’t know if that’s because it was my first time being pregnant so I was more aware/looking out for more symptoms?

Hi I also had a mmc in nov and I'm now 13 weeks pregnant all going well so far still super anxious but if you have had scans and seen heartbeat the odds of another mmc are low so wish you all the luck x

You’re more than welcome lovely honestly it’s such an awful thing to go through! You never expect until it happens to you that it’s ever going to happen to you. Thanks so much we’re incredibly lucky 🥰! I was exactly the same as you I wasn’t going to book an early scan due to the experience I had last time but in the end I caved and I felt sick to my stomach waiting for the day to come. It was on a Sunday too! The one thing I struggled with was the fact we have no control to an extent. If you are going everything you possibly can taking your vitamins and eating as healthy as possible just take each day as it comes and I know that’s easier said than done. I have everything crossed for you for Sunday! With my last pregnancy I also felt things I haven’t felt this time & vice versa but I honestly believe our bodies have an amazing way of telling us if something is wrong. I think when it’s our first time our senses are super heightened so we’re looking out for anything and everything xx