Having a baby with someone I barely know

I’ll be honest the mental abuse I’ve encountered within this short amount of time is room for me to GET TF OUT ! I’ve known him as long as I’ve known the baby and girl im only 20 weeks and 5 days pregnant , I’ve made the decision to not put him on the birth certificate and that’s just how that’s gonna go 🤷🏽‍♀️ . I found myself crying more so because I was love bombed y’all like how tf did he love bomb me ?!?! I can usually see it but not this time 🙃 I’m unmedicated (I have borderline personality) dealing with a slum lord and now this … I think not ! *sigh* I have a beautiful blessing but what in the entire fuck
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I am so sorry for what you’re going through. Does your family know?

Hunnnnnny u stress nd u stressing the bby out too boo u gotta find sum peace love

Kudos to handling this situation, for seeing the pattern of toxicity so early. I know being unmedicated is possible especially when practicing talk therapy but the emotional twist that can be at play are hard, trust your intuition on this and know that you are handling things well. This situation suuuucks so much.

I get it, My ex (who I only knew for about a month) got me pregnant bc he’d pressure me to have sex when I told him I didn’t want to and wanted us to wait, I cut him off and moved far away in Feb bc he did it again after I said no. Only reason I came back after breaking up with him in October was for the baby but I’m not staying with a man who doesn’t respect my boundaries and won’t take no for an answer.

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