🔥🔥Being submissive

Do you have trouble being 100% submissive to your spouse when you also work full time and pay bills ? Give me your honest opinion ladies !!
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I don't work or pay bills but I am a mostly submissive wife, IMO submission is something earned. I feel like submission is something that should feel natural, and if it doesn't then it's either one of two things: 1) your partner hasn't earned your submission, or 2) you're just not a submissive type of person, which is perfectly fine and you shouldn't force yourself into a mindset that doesn't feel true to you.

@🌸🎀ELLA🎀🌸 She's asking if they struggle to be submissive, I shared my opinion on how I think submission works in relationships. I've never worked or payed bills in my relationships but I've still struggled with submission in certain relationships (which is why I commented instead of voting and skewing the poll results), that was my point is that I don't think it's always tied to financial roles...

Depends on which bills I'm paying. If I have to pay half/most of the bills, then yes, I would have a problem being submissive. You need to be dominant in all aspects of your life for me to be submissive.

No I don’t. Being submissive is a choice I make every single day.

Hahahaha good joke, real knee slapper 😂😂😂

Submission to me has nothing to do with who makes more. In fact, it's a common trope that a lot of people in high power positions seek out sexual submission as a break from the rest of their lives

Like sexually?

No, my man is really good to me which makes it easy to submit to him. I respect him as a husband and father and what he brings to the table. I don’t limit it to financial provision. Submission is actually more about partnership than one being over the other

I can’t wrap my brain around handing over my power to someone who is my partner and my equal. I can’t imagine being asked to submit. To each their own, but not for me.

Maybe if you’re having a hard time being submissive, you can explore those thoughts / feelings. Maybe they are trying to tell you something

No I'm not submissive. We are equals. We discuss and compromise where we need to. We have a great and balanced relationship.

I don't have trouble with it as I am not submissive nor do I wish to be.

Why the fuck would I want to be submissive? That's essentially saying that your man is above you and should be treated like a god, no thanks

No because I won’t ever be and have no desire to be. If he decided he wanted me to be I’d leave 🤷🏻‍♀️

I will never be submissive. And I will teach my girls to never be submissive. 😂💃🏼

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I feel like this might be a man on here. This is a very odd post

I’m not a submissive person 😂 maybe sometimes In the bedroom 🤪 but generally no thanks ! I have a voice and I will use it x

@SquishyMommy1 I felt this. Some days are harder than others. If he's on top of his game it is so much easier to be submissive

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